10 Things I Didn't Know Before I Was Pregnant

1. The first 12 weeks, when no-one knows (and just think you ate all the pies) are when you feel the absolute worst. Want to throw up on your keyboard? Sure, just make sure you do it quietly.

2. You may not gain any weight but shit gets bigger and looser. I have a Kardashian sized bum, with none of the perks

3. Most people, upon finding out say “well done“. I swear, getting knocked up was the easiest praise I’ve ever received. If pregnancy was a promotion, I’d be President right about now.

* Side note – one person when finding out actually asked “How do you know?”. I wasn’t quite sure how to answer that one.*

4. You go through this awkward phase of part bloat, (small) part baby and (large) part fat. When I say ‘go through’ I mean it seems to last forever. Even now, with my news out in the open I find myself walking into a room of strangers defending the boep while screaming “I’m not fat, I swear, I’m just pregnant!”

5. You may be a 10 times Comrades marathon winner, but a few weeks in, you are so tired, so nauseous and so dizzy that the thought of climbing into your car seems like a chore, let alone going to gym (I refer to point 2.)

6. You gauge time by Doctor appointments, And every-time you have a scan you are surprised that the baby is still there. It’s true – for the first several weeks – apart from feeling like you’ve been roofied, there is nothing that makes you feel like you are really with child. Conversations with my gynae have gone as follows:

Me (naked and vulnerable on the bed, large camera dildo inserted): “Oh, cool – it’s still there!”

Doctor: “What do you mean it’s still there?”

Me: “Well, I don’t know, I didn’t really feel pregnant this morning”

Doctor: “Kate, you’re very much pregnant. The only thing that can kill your baby is me or nature”

Me: “Oh, so is it OK if I gym then? (this was clearly before I felt like I did in point 5).I mean, I skip and everything”

Doctor: “Honey, if skipping caused the baby to fall out, then everybody would be going to Virgin Active for an abortion”

7. Your food moods will change every minute. One night I made fish cakes for dinner. I count even take one bite before I burst into tears. When husband asked why I was crying, I cried even harder. In hindsight I think I was more sad for the money wasted on Woolworths salmon, than I was for the fact that I couldn’t touch seafood for the next few months.

8. Telling people is a treat, and probably deserves it’s own post, but I’ll summarise. When we told our respective folks, we wrapped up boxes of “Ouma’ rusks for the moms and “Grandpa” headache tablets for the dads. Firstly, let me tell you that the penny did not drop, and secondly we must have the politest set of parents in the history of parents. My mom, upon opening her (23 Rand) rusks must have gone on and on for over 5 minutes, gushing about how much she loooves rusks, and how delicious, and lovely and thoughtful of us to drive all the way over to their house and give them to her. You get my point. My dad, takes one look at the headache pills and says “I cant use these”.

My grannies weren’t much better. What we did for them was to wrap up the same box of “Ouma” rusks, but write “Great” on-top – as in “Great Ouma” – get it? She didn’t. After about 10 minutes of reading the box out loud, I had to eventually tell her that I was Pregnant.With.A.Baby. Only then did she look up at me, laughing, and say ‘Oh, Katie, I thought you just wanted to tell me how great I was!”

9. Preggy brain is a thing. I doubt it’s supposed to happen so soon – but twice now I have left the bathroom tap running after washing my hands. Thank god I have a spouse with a good ear.

10. You know when you’re younger and you meet a guy or girl who you really like? You cant stop yourself from saying their name at any and every opportunity. “Oh, you had a bikini wax today? Mark has a sister, I’m sure she also goes for bikini waxes”. It’s embarrassing, and obvious, and you can’t stop the verbal diarrhea. The same thing happens when you are pregnant – you want to talk about it all the time and have to physically stop yourself from mentioning your fetus in every conversation. (As I type this I have duct tape across my mouth to avoid boring my poor desk mate Lucy)

11. (I know, I said 10, but this is important). You are so excited you could pee! You also do pee, alot, but that’s because of increased blood flow, and not necessarily excitement. You’re not a dog for gods sake.

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9 Comments

  1. Wonderful post – I’m so going to steal that Gandpa/Ouma thing, I just have to find a woman willing to put up with my shit. Also, your doctor is hilarious.

    1. Good Luck Blinky – I come from smart stock and not even that helped. I reckon attaching the positive pee stick to the rusks may have helped (although detracting from their food appeal) Also, if you are looking for a woman to put up with your shit, find one who’s 39 and with a biological clock. Sorted!

  2. Awesome funny. This is the first time I experience dizziness, nausea, and tiredness. I have tried to keep up with exorcising, because, oddly enough, it’s the only thing that takes the nausea away. With the lack of energy though, it has become a battle. Congrats on baby!

    1. Thank you Alex, and congrats to you too! When are you due? I’m impressed you have managed to exercise – I have been very lazy. Going to check out your blog now – thanks for the follow!

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